90 Day Fiancé star Tammy Slaton is getting ready to re-enter the dating scene after losing 500 pounds, and it's thrilling to see her branching out following a body makeover, as her newfound maturity's giving her so much depth. Yes, the passage of time has changed Tammy, making her older, wiser and more charismatic. In the past, Tammy was temperamental and sometimes ungrateful, but then again, she was trapped in a body that betrayed her. Now that she's been freed from that prison, she's very different, and the changes have made her beautiful inside and out.
Her desire to form another romantic connection is inspiring as she's been hurt before, and this time, she wants to date a woman. Her worst heartbreak was the passing of the sweet and gentle poet, Caleb Willingham, who called her his "sunflower." Her ex-husband was an angelic man who treated her like a queen, bringing her little gifts that probably made her feel like a storybook princess. Sadly, he could not overcome his addiction to food.
Tammy looks great, but how she feels is more important. Does she love herself? Does she appreciate what she sees in the mirror? These are the important questions, and right now, it seems like she's truly valuing herself. Yes, she still has moments of doubt, but the insecurity that led her to argue with others has all but disappeared. As Tammy dances, sings and interacts with fans, she shows a softer side that underscores her keen appreciation for life and its wonders.
Tammy's Life Changes Have Expanded Her Mind
She's Getting More Out Of Being Alive
Experiences like this will radically change the way a person thinks. While Tammy's still hurt by trolls sometimes, it seems like her lust for life is winning out. She turns to the light as much as she can, and her own light always shines. Tammy uses her talents as a performer and influencer to express herself and inspire others.
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What she's been through is unique and as she sheds insecurity, she gets closer to her essence.Tammy the glam fashionista is becoming the woman she always wanted to be. Some people may try to stop this metamorphosis, but they can't. It's happening inside of her, on a soul level.
Tammy's Experiencing The World In A Different Way
It Makes Sense That She's Not Who She Used To Be
No one lives forever, and at some point, everyone has to decide what's important, and how to get the most joy out of their existence. It's essential to reach this point and choose happiness. Tammy has. Some people find joy in making things, such as art. Others are focused on their families. Some get pleasure from being in group situations. What's important is self-understanding - it's about really figuring out oneself and using one's time to maximize happiness.
For years, Tammy was at war with herself and other people. Now, she only fights when she has to. The more "at peace" a person is, the less they need conflicts to fill their time and distract them from deeper problems.
What's sparked this sense of gentleness and this reverence for life is physical freedom. For so long, Tammy couldn't move easily. She couldn't enjoy the world the way that other people did. She was disabled due to weight gain.
Most people with disabilities have to come to terms with being different, and that process can take a long time. Sometimes, it never happens. Tammy's one of the lucky ones - thanks to surgery, she's been released from what probably felt like a life sentence. In the future, she may become even more fit. The future is bright, with endless possibilities. Things are happening to her which once seemed completely impossible. Tammy may get skin removal surgery too.
Tammy Is Smiling & Glowing
She's Sad Sometimes But Not Too Often
It's only natural that Tammy feels more powerful, and sees the magic in life. It's all around her. There's no way she can go on as she used to. Change is happening whether she tries to make it happen or not. So, allowing herself to change is the best thing she can do. Trolls may try to slow down the process, but her evolution is guaranteed. Tammy, "proud of herself" in the Instagram post above, could barely walk, and now she dances.
Once, she was unable to do basic tasks without assistance. Now, she is able to fully look after herself. Her mobility is a gift that is denied to many. It is priceless.
Tammy should date even if things don't work out. She should immerse herself in life, trying new things. However, she shouldn't deny herself the comforts that she currently enjoys. While she's like a different human being, she was always a performer. Tammy is someone that people like to watch. She has star quality.
With or without a partner, Tammy will have that. It's her talent, and it's hers alone. Since no one can take it away, she should feel free to experiment with life. She can always find her center again if she's thrown off balance.
Tammy is a star, and she's now using her platform to inspire other people - it seems like she really wants to help them. One of the best things about maturing and becoming a stronger human being is that it pushes a person to protect and assist other people. If a person is strong enough, they are confident. They can use their energy to be a hero for others, rather than being consumed with their own insecurities.
Tammy's changed in a dazzling way, becoming a beautiful person on the inside. It's been fascinating to watch her come out of her shell. She will never go back.
Hopefully, she will find a person to love, but even if her romantic dreams don't come to fruition, she can continue to develop as a human being. She can develop her talents, use her platform to lift other people up, and enjoy friendships and family. The new Tammy is someone with grace, with compassion and wisdom. It's amazing what surgery has done for her, and she must feel like it's a miracle.
Since she's been touched by this kind of good fortune after decades of suffering, her transformation is moving. The right partner will help her to enjoy who she is now, and never hold her back. They will, as Bruce Springsteen sang in "Born To Run," "guard" Tammy's "dreams and visions."
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