The Golden Bachelorette: Signs Joan Vassos Would Move To Kansas Before Chock Chapple Would Move To Maryland (Is She More Dedicated To The Relationship Than Him?)

Critics have wondered whether The Golden Bachelorette’s Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple are equally dedicated to the relationship, making Joan’s out-of-state visit during the holidays particularly noteworthy. Joan and Chock formed an instant connection on the dating show, with Chock earning the coveted first one-on-one date. Joan ultimately chose the insurance executive as the recipient of her final rose, and Chock proposed. The pair have been engaged ever since.

Following the finale of The Golden Bachelorette season 1, Joan and Chock enjoyed the benefits of their reality TV stint. From magazine covers to sponsored content, the couple have made names for themselves. Their active social media accounts constantly update fans with their relationship milestones. As the pair enjoy their first New Year's Eve celebration, Joan’s travels stand out. The private school administrator dropped everything to share the holiday with Chock in his hometown. Now, critics are wondering whether Chock would do the same.

Joan Enjoyed Her Time In Kansas

Would Chock Do The Same?

Joan shares her New Year celebration with her fans in a carousel on her Instagram account from early January. In this post, Joan meets Chock’s network of friends and enjoys nearby restaurants. She excitedly embraces everything Chock loves about his hometown.

Rather than spend time with her friends/family in Maryland, Joan spent time getting to know Chock better. This major upheaval, paired with the often daunting introductions to a partner’s friend group, must have been intimidating and strange. Still, Joan was willing to do this on behalf of her partner.

Joan and Chock share a rare connection. They have spent a considerable amount of time and energy understanding one another better. While most can agree that the stars love each other, some are less convinced that their love is shared equally. Some may wonder whether Chock is as respectful of Joan’s commitments as she is of his desires.

Chock Never Posts About Being In Maryland

Joan Changed Her Mind

Part of the reason some fans second-guessed Chock’s intentions was his lack of content from Maryland. While Joan has traveled on several occasions, including Christmas, Chock seems to prefer his hometown. This one-sided dynamic may create some resentment within the relationship.

Joan has been impressively flexible in her relationship with Chock. Notably, she changed her mind regarding a major factor in their future commitments. Many believe Chock contributed heavily to this change of heart. The Maryland native has been incredibly vocal about her desire for a private wedding. She reiterated multiple times she prefers a small ceremony. Joan didn’t want to make a spectacle out of their ceremony, but Chock was always open to the idea. It seems Joan's convictions have shifted because of Chock.

In a post on Chock’s Instagram account, Joan told host Jason Tartick on the Trading Secrets Podcast that she would no longer feel right about a private wedding. Now, she wants to include her fans in the ceremony as the relationship means more than their isolated romance. She wants to inspire hope in other senior singletons that love can be found at any age. Joan's overall flexibility has left fans questioning whether Chock is influencing her decisions.

Will Joan Give In And Move To Kansas In The Future?

What To Expect

Besides Joan adapting to the relationship, their plans regarding the wedding date and apartment search have shifted. While they were originally hoping to find a shared apartment by the end of 2024, Joan and Chock have not yet made a decision. The pair have not shared any updates since their original post in mid-November. Some are unsure whether they will commit to their NYC move at all.

If the couple moves to one of their hometowns, Wichita, Kansas, seems like the more viable option. Joan seems to enjoy the location, and Chock undeniably loves his hometown. However, this decision could lead to turmoil in the future. Joan may resent Chock for his biases. The couple should maintain open lines of communication to avoid any disagreements. Whatever the couple decides to do and wherever they find themselves living, they will enjoy the environment together. Joan and Chock have been doing everything right. They have established:

• Transparent communication
• Family values
• A flexible mindset

The Golden Bachelorette’s first couple may have postponed some milestones, but they are on the right track. If they keep their steady pace and embrace the sacrifices necessary for a devoted relationship, then they will persevere. Fans can expect this couple to follow through on their promises.

Sources: Marriage.com, Joan Vassos/Instagram, Chock Chapple/Instagram, Trading Secrets Podcast