JoJo Siwa's rumoured Aussie love interest Kath Ebbs shares 'breakup' post: 'This s**t is hard'

JoJo Siwa's rumoured Australian lover Kath Ebbs has shared a very lengthy 'breakup' post amid rumours she is dating the American singer.

Abbie Chatfield's best friend, 27, took to Instagram with several paragraphs in dedication to 'breakup day', as she shared a tribute to followers who may be going through one.

Though she made no reference to her own relationship status or the rumours about her connection to JoJo, 21, Kath recalled her own struggles with heartbreak over the years. 

'Hilariously, December 11th is the most common day for a breakup and so it was coined "breakup day",' Kath began her lengthy post.

'And although this seems frivolous, I wanted to use it as a moment to mark the significance of breakups and to validate anyone going through one right now.

'Some of my lowest points during my adult life thus far have been triggered by heartbreak... The worst part of those experiences though was the feeling they shouldn't have been.'

Kath went on to say that 'heartbreak is such a universal experience' which can often bring 'comfort' and 'create a sense of normality'.

But she said that feeling can quickly 'turn to shame when we find ourselves unable to cope with this feeling of loss and change that everyone seems to seamlessly move on from'. 

Kath assured her followers that feeling 'debilitated' by heartbreak is only human and that 'healing isn't always linear or pretty'. 

'The truth is, losing someone is hard, grief is lonely, and change can be painful. Breakups can also trigger us into lots of other unhealed wounds which can be completely debilitating,' she penned.

'That doesn't mean you're broken, it just means you're having a different experience to some but also a similar one to many others.'

Kath revealed she has been 'panicked' in the past by the intense feeling of heartbreak she has felt during platonic and romantic breakups.

She wished to 'instil some hope' in her followers who may be experiencing the same hardship, and recalled the details of her very first heartbreak.

Kath was left 'lying awake in my sister's bed unable to sleep because I was so scared I was never going to feel "normal" again'. 

Behaving like a 'maniac', she feverishly Googled her symptoms in an effort to find people who had experienced the same emotional pain as her.

Kath went on to reassure her fans that she came through that pain to the other side, and they can too.

'Go gentle and slow and easy, this s**t is real hard. Allow yourself to do the bare minimum as you adjust,' she continued.

'Talk to someone, get outside and go for that damn brisk walk even though you really don't want to. Call on your mates and stay connected, don't isolate yourself and don't skip meals.'

Kath then encouraged her followers to 'watch trashy TV' and see professional help should they really need it.

She finished: 'One thing I can promise is it will get better and it's okay if that timeline is different to others. Happy breakup day.' 

Despite penning the long message in tribute to heartbreak and breakups, Kath was careful not to confirm or deny any rumours she was currently dating—or splitting up from—American dancer JoJo.

The bizarre post comes just days after the pair were spotted stepping out together in the Sydney seaside suburb of Bondi last Tuesday. 

Kath and JoJo headed out to a trendy local café where they shared a smooch after sitting down for their meal. 

The two laughed and chatted together, and seemed deeply engaged in their lively conversation. 

Afterward, they left together, stopping for a quick kiss before heading off down the road together. 

JoJo also took a moment to pose with some fans who spotted her, smiling for a selfie with the young women.

The musician was spotted again with Kath last weekend after the pair were seen getting close on the Gold Coast in Queensland the week before.  

Kath, who describes herself as a 'queer artist' and goes by they/she pronouns, took to her Instagram to share videos of the American singer. 

She was seen teaching the former Dance Moms star how Australians pump petrol during her trip Down Under.

Giggling from her car seat, Kath filmed JoJo as she attempted to fill up the car with petrol and was left stunned to discover she didn't have to pay for fuel upfront.

In the US, where JoJo was born and raised, residents are expected to pay for their fuel before they're allowed to fill up their gas tank. 

'I didn't pay for it. You could just drive off,' JoJo said, stunned by the reversed process of fuelling a car in Australia.

Laughing at JoJo's shock, Kath responded, 'You could, but they have your number plate,' adding that petrol stations Down Under use the 'honour system'. 

While Kath didn't appear on camera, she could be heard speaking throughout the Stories to Siwa, who was dressed in a black graphic T-shirt and jean shorts.  

Hours later, Kath took to Instagram to share a reel of images she had snapped of her friends recently.

One picture featured JoJo grinning with a glass of water in hand as she posed with Australian pop star G Flip.   

Kath is known to be best mates with fellow podcaster and television host Abbie Chatfield. 

She frequently appears on Abbie's social media with the pair partying together among their group of Sydney-based friends. 

Kath hosts the podcast Call Me Kath and owns a health food store named The Smoothie Bowl Shack, located in the inner city suburb of Glebe. 

The performer has also worked as a model and DJ, as well as being described as a queer activist. 

JoJo meanwhile is visiting Australia after suffering a recent heartbreak. 

She arrived in Sydney for the 2024 TikTok Awards last month, and performed at the ceremony. 

The rare one-off performance was her first return Down Under since her Dream tour in January 2020.