Because as it turns out, the “Wolves” singer and the music producer—who’ve collaborated on hits like “Single Soon” and “I Can’t Get Enough”—were actually first introduced more than a decade before they started dating, leading to their engagement in December 2024.
“We both met each other like almost 16, 17 years ago,” Benny revealed in an April interview with SiriusXM Hits 1. “Obviously, we made a bunch of songs together. But before we had made any music together, I was one of her big meetings—like right around when she was just leaving Disney to make her own music. Neither one of us remembered the meeting, but her mom remembered it.”
And even after they reconnected years later, Benny didn’t expect their relationship to shift from platonic to romantic.
“It was so crazy,” he said a month later on TheHoward Stern Show. “When we went out on our first date, I didn’t even know it was a date.”
“Your emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent (that blows me away), undeniable humor and loving, kind heart absolutely kill me,” Selena wrote in a tribute for his 36th birthday in March. “I love you @itsbennyblanco.”
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And she’s made it clear this isn’t some same old love.
“It’s the safest that I feel, and it’s been really lovely,” the 32-year-old told Apple Music’s Zane Lowe in February. “And I’ve only grown through it.”
Benny has also expressed his hope to grow a family with Selena one day.
“When I look at her,” he added to Howard Stern, “I’m always just like, ‘I don’t know a world where it could be better than this.’”
For now, keep reading to learn more about Selena and Benny’s relationship.