What Happened To Lexi Goldberg After The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 1?

Lexi Goldberg appeared in The Ultimatum: Queer Love season 1, and it's time for an update on the popular cast member. Lexi issued the ultimatum to her then-girlfriend Raelyn "Rae" Cheung-Sutton in The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On's first spinoff. Joining them on the show were four other queer couples: Mildred Woody and Tiff Der, Aussie Chao and Sam Marks, Vanessa Papa and Xander Boger, and Yoly Rojas and Mal Wright. The season aired on Netflix from late May 2023 to early June 2023, as all the episodes were released in a short window.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love season 1 turned out well for some of the couples on the show. However, some have split after the fact. Yoly and Mal left engaged, but by the time of the reunion, which was filmed in January 2023, they had broken up. Tiff and Mildred also left the experience engaged, but Tiff was the victim of domestic violence, which Mildred was arrested for. Vanessa and Xander parted ways and don't even follow each other on Instagram anymore. Aussie and Sam are the only couple from season 1 still together, and they have not gotten married yet.

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Lexi & Rae's The Ultimatum Journey

It Was Rocky

Lexi, who was the youngest Queer Love cast member at just 25 years old, gave then 27-year-old Rae the ultimatum after four years together. The Netflix couple entered into trial marriages for the experiment. Lexi paired up with Mal, and Rae did the trial portion with Vanessa. While Rae and Vanessa were together, the pair hooked up in an incident which was labeled "Finger Gate." Lexi had obvious disdain for Vanessa, and called her out as being on the show for the wrong reasons.

Despite the drama that went down over Finger Gate, Lexi asked Rae to marry her during the finale, and Rae said yes. When the pair appeared at the reunion, they were still very much in love and planning their wedding.

Lexi has Moved On Into A New Relationship

She Hard Launched Her Girlfriend In June 2023

Lexi appears to be all the way over Rae, as she started dating her current girlfriend, Kristin "Zanc" Zancanelli, a photogrpaher in June 2023. Zanc can be seen all over Lexi's Instagram, and Lexi can be seen on hers. The pair have a mix of spicy content as well as videos from their everyday lives together. Lexi has been focused on her physique as well, as she has many posts dedicated to her workout routines. Lexi has also changed up her hair quite a bit since her time on the show, and now sports dark brunette hair with a reddish tinge.

What Does Lexi Do For Work?

Is She An Influencer?

When Lexi came onto The Ultimatum: Queer Love, she was a consultant for an international tax agency. These days, she does not mention her job on her Instagram account, and appears to be riding the lifestyle content creator wave. She is a partner with BoohooMan clothing company, and also does promotional modeling for other brands. Lexi and Zanc also moved to New York City in October 2024. It's unclear what Lexi intends on doing for work outside of content creation while in NYC. But she did make a statement about her move.

"feel very blessed to be living life with someone so fearless and to know that we’ll never look back and wonder what “would have been” if we had just done it. I love this little life."

Is Lexi Friend With Queer Love Cast?

Her Instagram Is Telling

Lexi and Rae still follow each other on Instagram, signaling they are still on good terms. Interestingly, Rae and Vanessa are good friends and make TikTok videos together often. Mal is still a close friend of Lexi's, and the pair have shared posts from outings together. Lexi also follows her fellow The Ultimatum: Queer Love cast mates Aussie, Yoly, and Xander. Lexi does not follow Vanessa, which could mean the two still have animosity. While the show originally helped Lexi and Rae, it was the catalyst to their eventual breakup. But now, Lexi is thriving and has a public platform.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love is available to stream on Netflix.

Source: Netflix/YouTube, Lexi Goldberg/Instagram

The Ultimatum: Queer Love is a Netflix reality series that follows five different couples nearly ready to tie the knot - with one partner ready to walk down the aisle, and the other uncertain about their future. The show splits the couples apart for eight weeks and pairs them off with others who may have a strong connection with to see if they're ready to get married or move on.

Cast JoAnna Garcia Swisher

Release Date May 24, 2023

Seasons 1