Sheryl Lee Ralph Has Eyebrow-Raising Secret to a Successful Marriage

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Sheryl Lee Ralph is teaching everyone a thing or two about how to have a long, happy marriage.

The Abbott Elementary star has been married to Vincent Hughes since 2005, but she admitted she and the Pennsylvania state senator don’t live in the same city. Still, their bond remains as strong as ever.

“My husband and I are technically very married,” Sheryl told People at the Out100 event in Los Angeles Dec. 11, where she received the Advocate of the Year Award. “People always say, ‘Well, how does that work? How does that work?’ I [say], ‘Dolly Parton knows how it works.’ She's been married [to Carl Thomas Dean] for 50 years. You have never seen her husband one time.”

“You know why?” she continued. “‘Cause they plan on staying married. And guess what we plan on? Staying married.”

Indeed, Sheryl stressed that she and Vincent know how to spend quality time together. As she put it, “Our business is in the bedroom. Thank you!” 

But this isn’t the first time the Dreamgirls alum—who shares son Etienne, 32, and daughter Ivy Coco, 29, with ex-husband Eric Maurice—has discussed her unique living arrangement with the politician.

"We live together on and off,” she told E! News last December, “in that I'm shooting Abbott Elementary in L.A. He is at the Capitol every week, so we see each other in between." 

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But the pair—who, according to a 2019 post to Sheryl’s Instagram, met on a blind date in the early 2000s and were accompanied on their wedding day by Patti LaBelle, Lorretta Devine and Niecy Nash-Betts as bridesmaids—doesn’t let their rare date nights dim their spark.

"Is that my man?" she continued to E!. "Am I booed up? Do we enjoy cuffing season? Yes."

Keep reading to see more stars that have been in long term relationships. 

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Dolly Parton & Carl Thomas Dean

She's a superstar performer known around the world. He's a private man who stays away from the spotlight. But together, they've built a marriage that has lasted more than 56 years. "I like it when people say, 'How did it last so long?'" Dolly told ET Canada in December 2022. "I say, 'It's stay going.' There's a lot to be said about that. So we're not in each other's face all the time. He's not in the business, so we have different interests, but yet we have the things we love to do together. So it was meant to be. He was the one I was supposed to have and vice versa."

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Samuel L. Jackson & LaTanya Richardson Jackson

There's no breaking the bond of these college sweethearts. "In the beginning, we always said the most revolutionary thing that Black people could do was stay together, raise their children with the nucleus of having a father and a mother, since everybody likes to pretend that that's not the dynamic of the African American family," LaTanya told People in March 2022. "That it's just children out here being raised by women, which we know is false. In order to change that narrative, we made a decision to say, ‘We are going to stay together no matter what. We'll figure it out.'"

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Bonnie Bartlett & William Daniels

When you find joy in life's daily activities, Bonnie says your marriage could last forever. "We're very happy," she told People when celebrating 72 years of marriage in January. "We sit in this house and we do things. He reads his New York Times and he does Cameos mostly. And we do conventions and things like that. We just like to be with each other. And we would do anything for each other."

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Ron & Cheryl Howard

These high school sweethearts celebrated their 50th anniversary in November 2020. "There's no technique," Ron told People just one year earlier. "There's no tactic other than communication is really important. You have to learn to communicate and have difficult conversations in constructive ways."

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Christopher & Georgianne Walken

After meeting during a production of West Side Story in the '60s, this couple continues to savor every moment together with gratitude. "Every once in a while, I'll be looking out the window, and I'll think, 'I feel pretty good,'" Christopher told New York Times Magazine in February 2022. "My bills are paid, my wife is healthy, the weather's nice. That's really all I care about: when, apropos of nothing, I happen to look out the window and think, 'This is good.'"

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Alan & Arlene Alda

After 65 years of marriage, the couple has found their groove away from the spotlight in Long Island, New York. In an interview with The New Yorker, Alan said he and his wife enjoy playing chess during the day and ladder ball before dusk. Then, it's a nice dinner and a quality TV show.  It's not noisy in the country," he said in June 2022. "I don't have to show up places. Places come to me."

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Martin & Janet Sheen

Through sickness and in health! After Martin recovered from a heart attack and nervous breakdown in the late '70s, he recalled a few words his wife told him. "It was very serious, and she handled it like a pro," he told Closer Weekly in 2016. "She had me laughing in the most dire circumstances. She said, 'Don't take yourself so seriously.' Every day is a celebration with this dame."

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Lily Tomlin & Jane Wagner

After meeting in 1971, Lily and Jane have been inseparable. When asked to share advice for other couples, Lily kept it simple. "We all have a secret," Lily told reporters in 2019. "It's just the secret is that you're committed and care and you want it to work out. You don't want to walk away from something that's important."

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