Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star Jen Affleck offered $50k to get lapdance from male stripper after she files for divorce

The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives star Jen Affleck has been offered $50k to get a lapdance, days after she filed for divorce from husband Zac Affleck.

The reality TV star's, 27, infamous visit to a Chippendales club in season one of the Hulu show nearly ruined her marriage, but now a Las Vegas strip club wants to pay her to return. 

Larry Flynt's Hustler Club sent Jen an offer to host a 'No More Red Flags' party and get an onstage lap dance from a male stripper, according to TMZ.

The club's general manager Lianne Heck told TMZ, 'Jen has dealt with enough red flags, and we think she deserves a $50,000 celebration. This time, she doesn't need anyone's approval!'

The pointed dig at Zac, 30, referred to the time he and Jen had a fight after she and her MomTok squad spent the night at the striptease show during a girls' trip to Vegas in 2024.

At the time, Jen - who is currently expecting her fourth child with Zac - worried that her husband would 'literally divorce me over something like this.'

During a confessional segment on the show she said, 'I definitely think this goes against everything we believe in as Mormons. I think it's disrespectful to my husband, it's disrespectful to our marriage. Even though this is all a joke, I feel like from the church's standpoint, it looks really bad.'

She also told co-star Mayci Neeley that if any of the men tried to touch her, she would leave.

'I literally will be a divorced woman. I'm not even kidding. I'm not even just jokingly saying that. I'm literally telling you Zac would literally divorce me over something like this.'

After Zac found out she was at the show and called her, she broke down in tears on the phone, telling him, 'Can you just stop for a second and think about me as a person and my character? Can you just think about me please? I did nothing wrong in this situation.'

She then told her friends, 'He said he doesn't want to be married to me if I do stuff like this.'

However, months after the controversy the pair returned to Chippendales together, with Jen sharing clips from their visit to her TikTok last year.

'This is what I like to call ✨exposure therapy✨' she wrote in the caption of the video, tagging Zac.

The lapdance offer comes after Jen shared a series of revealing videos taken during her marriage to Zac, after she filed for divorce.

After the news of their separation became public, Zac posted an online statement claiming to be Jen's 'biggest supporter' and insisting their priority was co-parenting.

However, in stark contrast, Jen posted two clips from during the relationship, including one where Zac asks her not to post because she has 'saggy t*ts'.

Wearing a headband and her dressing gown, make-up free Jen appears on camera at the start of a 'daily routine' video and Zac can be heard in the background.

He says: 'I hope you're not making a TikTok looking like that. Your t*ts are sagging all over. You don't want to post that baby I'll tell you that right now.'

Jen asks: 'Am I embarrassing myself?'

Zac then tells her: 'A little bit, I would hope you wouldn't want to post that.'

Jen complies and says: 'Yeah, you're right I'm just trying to be real with you guys.'

The pregnant mother of three lashed out at her ex and captioned the TikTok video: 'He was never my biggest supporter.'

Fans have shared their horror over the way that Zac spoke to his wife and he quickly jumped to his own defense online.

One person wrote: 'If my husband told me my boobs were "saggy" 2 weeks after giving birth I'd never forgive him'.

Zac responded: 'This was a video from 2022. Obviously horrible and should never have been said. When I saw the video today I was absolutely shocked I had said that. I said a lot of horrible and hurtful things but I have tried my best to learn and grow.' 

While another fan said: 'Degrading your postpartum wife is INSANE...'

And Zac replied: 'It was from 2022. And I think that world already knows I made a lot of mistakes and said a lot of absolutely horrible things (sic).'

Jen also shared a second video of the couple during their marriage, where she is applying skincare in the bathroom when Zac confronts her about a discarded towel. 

Zac says: 'Can you not throw the towel on the ground?'

And Jen tells him: 'What? It's dirty.'

Zac asks: 'What are we supposed to shower with?'

Jen replies: 'I'll get there.'

Zac then asks what he is supposed to do: 'Is there no other towels?'

Jen tells him: 'I've been doing all your laundry forever... if I got a little bit more help that would be nice, maybe we'd have some towels...'

The old videos shared to Jen's TikTok came hours after Zac shared his own version of events in a video statement on the platform. 

Speaking to his followers, Zac said: 'I wanted to come on here and address everything that is happening, I don't have a PR team right now but I think this is the right thing to do. So I'm just going to speak from the heart.'

'So it is true that Jen filed for divorce yesterday and it is true that I found out from a TMZ reporter about the filing but regardless we've been talking about this for a long time.'

'Jen came to me about a year ago after Dancing With The Stars and said she wasn't happy and wanted a divorce, I basically begged her to stay and told her I would work on things and fix things and become whoever she needed me to be. But we just couldn't make it work.'

'It sucks because I really love Jen. When I first met Jen she had this light about her, unlike anyone I've ever met and she really does have a really good heart. I will continue to support her and be her biggest fan. I really do believe in her. Anything with acting and singing, wherever she goes I believe she'll be successful.'

'We're really just trying to figure out at this point what's next and how we handle this with the kids, they are my priorities. The thing that is eating me alive the most is that I feel like I have failed my kids and I'm going to cause them damage. I hope we can still give them a normal childhood. But as far as that goes Jen and I are definitely on the same page with wanting to give them the best life we can and be teammates.'

'I don't want anyone speaking bad about Jen. I'll be the first to say I've made plenty of mistakes in our marriage it just really was time for us to go our own ways,' he went on.

'We got married so young and it sucks because I felt we had something special when we got married, but life happened. We had four kids and we signed up for reality TV on a show that has really hurt a lot of people's lives.'

'It's just hard. Marriage is hard and having your marriage in public is hard. Raising kids is hard. Slowly over time we lost that spark and life happened,' he said.

'I'm just coming on here to shut down any narratives. I've seen all sorts of things, like Team Zac, Team Jen. The only team is just trying to give these kids the best life we can and supporting each other, I think we're going to continue to do so and see what a healthy co-parenting can look like. That's my goal and Jen has also said so.'

'Please just remember we're human, we're people. Please be kind and understanding.'

'I don't know what's next... maybe Netflix will give us a divorced DadTok show? That was supposed to be funny...'

In response to his video, one person wrote: 'Finding out on TMZ is crazy.' 

Zac responded: 'We had been talking about it for a while. She had press obligations and a show coming out where she talks about divorce so I think her or her team felt it had to happen. It's all good.' 

Jen submitted her petition for divorce on Tuesday after seven years of marriage, according to documents reviewed by The Daily Mail. Details behind why the couple are splitting or how they are looking to divide custody of their children were not made clear in the court filing.

According to legal documents, Jen 'must attend both the divorce orientation and the parenting class within 60 days after filing the petition for divorce'.

Zac is required to 'attend both the divorce orientation and the parenting class within 30 days after receiving this notice', the court filing stated.

The pair first linked up using Mutual, a dating app designed for Mormon singles, in 2018. They subsequently got engaged and exchanged vows in June of 2019.

They are parents to daughters Nora, five, and Penelope, one, as well as son Lucas, three.

This past June, Jen revealed on Instagram that she is expecting their fourth child in a post in which she showed off her baby bump.

Since The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives debuted on Hulu in 2024, Jen has played a major role across all five seasons.

Jen, who has relocated to Southern California from Utah, will appear on the Hulu spinoff The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives: Orange County, which is slated to debut November 12.