Ruby Franke’s Daughter Details Intense Confrontation After CPS Call

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YouTuber Ruby Franke's Journal Entries Revealed

Ruby Franke’s daughter is ready to tell her story. 

Nearly a year after the former parenting influencer was given four consecutive one to 15 year sentences—equivalent to four to 60 years in prison, but will be capped at 30 years in the state of Utah—for second-degree aggravated child abuse, her daughter Shari Franke is reflecting on the tragic family situation in an upcoming memoir. 

“I don’t think she’ll ever fully comprehend or understand what she’s done,” Shari, now 21, told People in an article published Jan. 2. “I just hope that she can get the help she needs.”

Shari—the eldest of Ruby and ex Kevin Franke’s six children—went on to detail an argument with Ruby prior to her mother’s 2023 arrest in an excerpt of her upcoming memoir, The House of My Mother.

“Ruby’s face contorted with anger and hurt. ‘I can’t believe you called the police on me,’” Shari wrote in the excerpt. “‘After everything I’ve done for you, after all the sacrifices I’ve made. How could you betray me like that, Shari? How could you be so selfish?’”

At the time, Ruby had—along with her friend and colleague Jodi Hildebrandt—been physically abusing her youngest children, then aged 11 and 13, due to what the former YouTuber later called a “dark delusion,” then-believing they deserved abusive treatment. 

In her memoir excerpt, Shari explained how she came to understand the “toxic web” of her upbringing, noting she had told her mother she had called the police for “the safety” of her younger siblings. 

“‘One day, Shari, you’ll come crawling back to me,’” Shari recounted her mother telling her. “‘Begging for my forgiveness. And it’ll be hard for me to give it to you, but I’ll be gracious.’” 

E! News has reached out to attorneys for Ruby but has not yet heard back.

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The author continued to describe the altercation with her mother, sharing she felt “hot and sticky” tears streaming down her face as she remained strong in her conviction to stand up to her. 

“‘You’ve always hated me,’” Shari recalled her mother telling her. “‘Ever since you were five years old, I could see it in your eyes. The way you looked at me, the way you judged me. You’ve never appreciated everything I’ve done for you, all the sacrifices I’ve made.’” 

As for how she responded, Shari recalled saying, “‘That’s not true,’ I choked. ‘I never hated you, Mom. I was just scared of you.’” 

And while Shari is ready to come forward with her story in the memoir, set to release Jan. 7, it has been a tumultuous journey for her since her mother and Jodi received their respective sentences last February. In October, she spoke out against a Lifetime documentary that depicted a version of her family’s story.

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“I saw the trailer suddenly in class and had an anxiety attack,” Shari wrote in an Instagram post at the time. “This movie is trash, and only hurts my siblings more. Please do not support this movie."

As for Ruby, she is currently serving her time at the Utah State Correctional Facility alongside Jodi—who was similarly sentenced to four to 60 years for four counts of second-degree aggravated child abuse—and has expressed remorse for her actions.

“To my babies, you are a part of me, I believed dark was light and right was wrong,” Ruby who, along with Jodi, pleaded guilty to her charges said during her sentencing hearing. “I would do anything in this world for you. I took from you all that was soft, and safe, and good.”

Keep reading for a timeline of the case. 

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Aug. 30, 2023: Children Found Malnourished

Utah police received a call about a starved child being found, they shared in a press release. The minor—who appeared "emaciated and malnourished" with "open wounds and duct tape around the extremities"—was taken to the hospital in "severe" condition.

He was later identified as YouTuber Ruby Franke's 12-year-old son, according to a probable cause affidavit obtained by NBC News. He had been at the home of Ruby's business partner Jodi Hildebrant and had climbed out of a window before going to a neighbor's house to ask for help, per the document.

Police then searched a nearby home, where another child was found "in a similar physical condition of malnourishment" and was also hospitalized, per the press release.

Authorities later explained that they discovered Ruby's 9-year-old daughter "petrified" while sitting by herself in an empty closet in Jodi's house, per evidence released by the Washington County Attorney's Office.

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Aug. 30, 2023: Arrest 

Ruby was arrested for aggravated child abuse charges in Utah along with Jodi, who in 2007 established a life coaching service called ConneXions, which former clients described to NBC News as a "cult-like" program based on principles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

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Aug. 31, 2023: Ruby's Daughter Speaks Out

On Aug. 31, E! reported that Shari Franke, Ruby's estranged adult daughter, reacted to the news on her Instagram Story.

"Me and my family are so glad justice is being served," wrote Shari, who was born in 2003. "We've been trying to tell the police and CPS for years about this, and so glad they finally decided to step up. Kids are safe, but there's a long road ahead."

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Aug. 31, 2023: Ruby's Sisters React to Arrest

Ruby's sisters Ellie Mecham, Bonnie Hoellein and Julie Deru spoke out as well, saying the YouTuber's arrest "needed to happen."

"For the last 3 years we have kept quiet on the subject of Ruby Franke for the sake of her children," they wrote in a joint Instagram statement. "Behind the public scene, we have done everything to try and make sure the kids were safe. We wouldn't feel right about moving forward with regular content without addressing the most recent events. Once we do, we will not be commenting on it any further."

The siblings said Ruby's kids are "now safe, which is the number one priority."

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Sept. 6, 2023: Charges Filed

The former 8 Passengers YouTuber and her business partner Jodi were each formally charged with six counts of felony child abuse by the Washington County Attorney in Utah.

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Sept. 6, 2023: Kevin Franke Breaks Silence

Ruby's husband Kevin Franke came forward to deny involvement in her alleged crimes. His lawyer Randy Kester told Good Morning America the spouses had been living apart for 13 months before the arrest.

"He is a good person, he's very gentle," the attorney said. "He's a very gentle guy. And no one has ever made any allegations that he's physically abused those kids or anyone else." 

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Nov. 29, 2023: Kevin Files for Divorce

Kevin officially filed for divorce from the Utah influencer, according to a domestic relations injunction obtained by NBC News.

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Dec. 18: Guilty Pleas

E! confirmed Dec. 18 that Ruby had entered a guilty plea for four of her charges. At the time, per the Associated Press, she stated, "With my deepest regret and sorrow for my family and my children, guilty."

Jodi would also plead guilty to four counts of second-degree felony aggravated child abuse.

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Feb. 20, 2024: Prison Sentencing

Both women were sentenced to four consecutive one to 15 year sentences, which will be capped at the 30-year max in Utah.

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Feb. 20, 2024: Ruby Apologizes

The parent vlogger apologized during her sentencing to her six kids and estranged husband.

"For the past four years, I've chosen to follow counsel and guidance that has led me into a dark delusion," she said in court. "My distorted version of reality went largely unchecked as I would isolate from anyone who challenged me."

She continued, "To my babies, you are a part of me. I believed dark was light and right was wrong. I would do anything in this world for you. I took from you all that was soft, and safe, and good."

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March 25, 2024: Ruby's Diary Revealed

Prosecutors released her chilling journal entries, in which she wrote about her mistreatment of her children, including her "Satanic" tween son.

"He slithers & sneaks around looking for opportunities when no one is watching & then he scurries," she wrote in an entry from July 10, 2023, which was her son's 12th birthday. "If he wants to emulate the savior, he needs to be 100% obedient with exactness. No wavering, no hiding."

She wrote about punishing her children by beating them and withholding food and water.

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March 25, 2024: Kevin's Interview With Authorities Becomes Public

Prosecutors released audio footage of Kevin talking with investigators after Ruby was arrested, in which he spoke about alleged restrictions he faced in their house.

"There were all these rules now placed on me, like I can leave when I want but I couldn't come back until Ruby gave me permission," Kevin said in an audio clip obtained by E!. "I couldn't come into the kitchen to eat until Ruby gave me permission and the upstairs where Jodi was was completely offline. I couldn't go upstairs anymore in my own house. And Ruby would dictate all of the terms of how our interactions would be, when we would talk. And that was hard."

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