Paris Hilton Reveals Whether She or Carter Reum Is the Stricter Parent
Carter Reum is enjoying the simple life with Paris Hilton.
In fact, the venture capitalist slammed online claims that his four-year marriage to with Simple Life alum—with whom he shares kids Phoenix, 3, and London, 2—has caused him "emotional pain." As for the truth?
"Rest assured my wife @parishilton is my one in a trillion and we’re the happiest and best couple," Carter wrote in a March 19 Instagram comment, responding to a video of Paris turning away from his kiss while posing for photos the 2024 Grammys. "Although I appreciate everyone’s amateur psychology takes as many called out, I just love giving me wife a kiss and she just hates her makeup being smudged on a red carpet."
He added, "It’s not that deep everyone, and yes she loves me to death."
Indeed, Paris has made it clear she’s head-over-heels for Carter, who she first met while in her 20s before reconnecting at a 2019 Thanksgiving dinner. The pair got engaged in February 2021, before marrying in November that year.
"I’ve lived a very unique life in the public eye over the last two decades and throughout the years, I was always searching for my partner," Paris wrote in a 2021 blog following her and Carter's nuptials. "I was looking for my equal. Someone who wasn’t fascinated with 'Paris Hilton' but instead, someone who saw the real me and loved me for me."
"I’m so proud of my love story with Carter, and even more excited that it’s just beginning," she continued, adding that her husband "makes everything feel like a fairy tale."
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Their relationship has even helped the "Stars Are Blind" singer work through some of her childhood trauma, which she said led her to have trust issues during adulthood.
"I didn't trust anybody and I had these huge walls around my heart and everything," Paris—who previously dated Chris Zylka, Benji Madden, Nick Carter, Stavros Niarchos and Rick Salomon—shared during a 2021 appearance on The Tamron Hall Show, calling Carter "the man of my dreams."
She added, "I'm just happy I found the perfect partner."
For a closer look at Paris and Carter's love story, read on.
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Start of Something New
The world-famous socialite and her new boo rang in their first Christmas together with a trip to his Michigan hometown in 2019.
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Love at First Sight
From the start, Paris said she saw something special in Carter.
"I feel so blessed to have found the love of my life at the perfect time," she raves. "He is everything I have ever hoped and dreamed of. Loyal, kind, romantic, handsome, thoughtful, caring, brilliant and perfect for me in every way. I truly believe that everything in life happens for a reason and that we were always meant to be."
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Snow Bunnies
The duo jetted off to Yellowstone National Park in February 2020.
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Cuddle Up
Paris gushed about Carter being her soulmate for life, sharing, "I've heard of twin flames before but I never believed in them 'till I met Carter. He is definitely my twin flame, my best friend, my other half and I can't wait for our future and to spend the rest of our lives together."
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You & Me
The entrepreneur flashed his leading lady a smile as they ride a ski lift in Yellowstone.
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Easter Celebrations
They say opposites attract, but not in the case of Paris and Carter's love story. "We are both Aquarius, so we are alike in so many ways," she shared. "I love everything about him."
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Summer of Love
The lovebirds took to the high seas for this Kodak moment.
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He's The One
What made Carter stand out from Paris' previous Prince Charmings? As she put it, "This is the first time in my life where I am with my equal. He wants nothing from me but my love. It's such an incredible feeling to know that. And this is the first time in my life where I have let down my walls and opened my heart to someone."
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Wanderlust
As the fall season approached, the couple headed to Utah for a romantic getaway.
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Puppy Love
Carter showered Paris with gifts, including an adorable dog she named Slivington.
"She is so exotic and has the most stunning baby blue eyes and the cutest personality," the star described. "I love that he is an animal lover like me."
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One Year Down, Forever to Go
In November 2020, Paris and Carter celebrated their first anniversary with a lavish trip to Bora Bora.
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Paradise
Calling Bora Bora "one of my favorite places in the world," Paris gushed, "We had the best time together, going on adventures, water skiing, swimming with sharks, turtles and all the beautiful sea life, wakeboarding, jet skiing and swimming in the beautiful warm turquoise waters. He always loves to surprise me. He makes me feel like a princess everyday. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world."
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Fun in the Sun
And the award for Best Instagram Boyfriend goes to Carter!
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Bling Bling
Paris said her man surprised her with "the most beautiful diamond bracelet" for their anniversary. "I was so happy I cried when I read the card and opened up the gift box and saw the gorgeous sparkling bracelet," she adds. "I love it so much and will treasure it forever."
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Feeling Grateful
Over the 2020 Thanksgiving holiday, Paris spends time with Carter's family at the Montage Hotel in Laguna Beach, Calif.
"I love how close his family is," she says. "They are such kind and genuine people. We all always have the best time together and it's so nice to spend so much time together."
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A Perfect Match
Mwah!
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A New Chapter
Paris' 2020 documentary explored her troubled childhood, an aspect of her personal life that she said impacted her romantic relationships.
"After what I have been through in life, I was very protective of my heart and letting people in," she explained. "But with Carter it all just happened so naturally—like he was the one I had waited my whole life for. So I'm so happy that I was patient and waited for The One."
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A Year They'll Never Forget
Despite such a "crazy and scary" year due to the pandemic, Paris said, "I always try and see the silver lining in everything, and I am so grateful to have had Carter in my life. I can't imagine being single and alone during all this."
"Plus, it brought us even closer being able to spend 24/7 together," she continued. "I'm used to traveling all around the world over 250 days a year, so this is the first time I've been in one place. Carter and I always say to each other that being together like this has literally been like being in a five-year relationship. I've never felt closer to a person in my life."
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Mr. & Mrs.
After getting engaged in February 2021, the couple exchanged vows that November.
"I finally got to kiss my Prince and begin the happily ever after I've been dreaming of since I was a little girl," Paris wrote on her website. "It was a true fairytale wedding."
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First Anniversary
The couple celebrate their first wedding anniversary on Nov. 11, 2023, with an epic party at Santa Monica Pier, the same place where they held their nuptials event.
"This past year with you as husband and wife has been a magical whirlwind," Paris wrote to Carter on Instagram in honor of their marriage milestone. "No matter how far we travel and no matter where in the world we are, as long as we are together, I’m at home with you."
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Oh Baby!
Paris announced that she and Carter welcomed their first child, a son named Phoenix, in February 2023.
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Halloween Hotties
Paris dressed up as a flight attendant from Britney Spears' "Toxic" music video, while Carter served as her literal wingman in a pilot costume.
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Expanding the Family
Thanksgiving 2023 was an extra special one for Paris and Carter. Not only was it their first one with son Phoenix, but the couple also announced that they had welcomed their second child, a daughter named London.
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Family of Four
The couple were were joined by their kids at the premiere of Paris' Infinite Icon: A Visual Memoir in January 2026.

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