Jennifer Lopez Details “Really Tough” 3rd Divorce

“She said to me, ‘Jennifer, you’re a dancer, right?’” the 56-year-old—who was married to Marc from 2004 until their divorce was finalized in 2014—recalled. “I said, ‘Yes, I am.’ And she said, ‘When you’re learning a dance, and you get the steps wrong, what do you do?’ I said, ‘I just keep going until I get the steps right.’ And she said, ‘That’s right, Jennifer. Always keep dancing.'"

Passing along that same message to her fans, J.Lo encouraged the audience to live by her motto.

“And I wish the same for every last one of you,” she said, “that no matter what life throws at you, that you dance, and you dance, and you dance—again, and again, and again. I love you so much!”

But this wouldn’t be the first time that the Hustlers star has gotten candid about her romantic history. After all, Jennifer—who was also previously married to Ojani Noa, Cris Judd, and Ben Affleck—recently revealed that she’s never “truly been loved.”

"What I learned, it's not that I'm not lovable," Jennifer told Howard Stern on the Oct. 15 episode of his eponymous SiriusXM show. "It's that they're not capable. They don't have it in them. They need to appreciate the little person inside of them. They need to love them."

But at the time, Jennifer’s former partners "gave me what they had."

"They gave me all of it, every time. All the rings, all the things I could ever want," Jennifer explained, “tried to give me the houses, the rings, the marriage, all of it."

Still, their efforts seemed to fall short. As Howard noted, “But they didn't love you," to which the “Let’s Get Loud” singer replied, "They didn't," adding, "And I didn't love myself."

"But the truth is when you're in this type of career and you have the type of level of fame that we're talking about, there is a compromise," she continued. “There are adjustments that you do need to make, because it is a very blessed life."

For a closer look at Jennifer’s romantic history, read on…