Full moons have a way of making people feel different. Whether bolder and more electric or spiritual and introspective, there's something about the lunar event that can transform you. Even if you don't buy into zodiac signs or believe in the power of cosmic energy, celebrating a full moon can be a great time to hit pause, set intentions, and, of course, party.
In Thailand, full moon parties are pretty accurately represented in the new season of "The White Lotus" (well, without the brotherly incest). They tend to be wild ragers outside with alcohol, fire dancers, and neon everything. But even beyond the surface, a full moon party can bring out a side of you that would otherwise be hidden, and it's up to you to decide what that means or how you want to explore it.
The good news: you don't have to fly across the world to celebrate a full moon, though Thailand does have some great resorts. Hosting a full moon party at home can be just as healing, and may even help you lean more into journaling, manifesting, or charging crystals.
From setting up your space and creating the perfect ambiance to meditating and reciting affirmations, here's how to throw a full moon party at home.
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What Is a Full Moon Party?
A full moon party is a celebration of a full moon, which occurs once a month. Though some people may celebrate a full moon in Thailand outside in the city with friends and family, it can also be celebrated more introspectively at home.
"Because the full moon can bring emotional intensity, a full moon party can be the perfect medium to let it all go," spiritual medium Amanda Lieber says. Not only can it help you feel more connected to yourself, but it can also be a great opportunity for manifestation, she says. "It's a great opportunity for setting intentions and dreaming big."
How to Throw a Full Moon Party
A full moon party can look however you want it to look. If you want to invite friends over and host a party outside underneath the moonlight, it can be as simple as that. But if you'd like to host a full moon party with the intention of soaking up all of that spiritual energy, there are a few ways you can do that, as well.
Whether you have a full moon party by yourself or invite some friends over, Lieber recommends coming into the setting with an open heart. "The moon is here to bring your divine feminine energy to the surface," Lieber says. In other words, "leave your analytical 'thinking mind' at home and lean into your more subconscious 'intuitive mind' that actually holds all the answers you've been searching for."
In order to do this, Lieber says you should find a way to relax and calm your body prior to the party. This can be done via meditating, taking a bath, going on a walk, or having a solo dance party. "This is how you create this open, receptive state," Lieber adds.
Once the full moon is here, there are a few things you should have on hand to take in all of the moon's spiritual energy:
- A journal. "It can be helpful to have a journal and something to write with to record any thoughts or revelations that come up," Lieber says.
- Crystals, since they can be charged under the moonlight.
- A blanket or cushion for meditating.
- Some tissues: "Be prepared to let healing tears flow," Lieber says.
- Music, specifically a vibey playlist that makes you feel relaxed and calm.
Once the full moon is shining bright, allow yourself to feel. Write down any big emotions you experience, manifest some new goals, and repeat affirmations like "I trust that everything is unfolding in perfect timing" or "I am meant to receive all that my heart desires."
Most importantly, don't be afraid of what comes to light during the full moon party. Remember, the full moon is a "call to take your power back by gently letting go of old beliefs and behavioral patterns that no longer serve you," so revelations may feel tough at first. However, know that the full moon will also help you "clear space for what actually lights you up," Lieber adds.
Ready to throw your own full moon party? Check out PS's guide to every full moon this year and their meanings.
Taylor Andrews (she/her) is the balance editor at PS, specializing in topics relating to sex, relationships, dating, sexual health, mental health, travel, and more. With seven years of editorial experience, Taylor has a strong background in content creation and storytelling. Prior to joining PS in 2021, she worked at Cosmopolitan.