90 Day Fiancé: Signs Darcey Silva's Ego's Out Of Control (She's Changing Amid Latest Face Transformation & Weight Loss Milestone)

90 Day Fiancé star Darcey Silva is known for her over-the-top belief in fairytale romance, as well as jaw-dropping makeovers that have revamped her face and body, and it's possible that a growing ego has sparked Darcey's latest transformation. Darcey is sometimes an endearing presence on TV - she isn't jaded, always looking for the ideal life, even though she's been knocked down so often. She's not mean-spirited or a typical villain.

Some of this "ego" may actually be insecurity. For example, when Darcey was dating the crass Englishman Tom Brooks, who seemed to sadistically enjoy hurting her, Tom called her out for gaining weight when they met at a restaurant. What should have been a pleasant outing left Darcey feeling downcast. He eventually dumped the bleached blond, and then proceeded to rub his ritzy "007" lifestyle in her face. This type of shade may inspire Darcey's reinventions. She doesn't seem to be "easy in her own skin." Darcey keeps attempting to fit a mold that probably isn't right for her.

Darcey Has Changed Dramatically

She's Become A Different Woman

Darcey used to be a pretty brunette with a natural look. Now, she has a Pamela Anderson-style dye job, and she's gotten a dizzying array of cosmetic "enhancements," including a startling "fox eye" procedure. Above, she shows off an unfiltered selfie but adds heavy makeup, killing the "raw" vibe. Darcey wears a lot of red lipstick, as well as bronzer, and her brows are very dark against her pale blond hair. One snarky critic sounded off, writing:

When you go to the airport, do you have to check your lips💋at the gate? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Clearly, this is a high glam look that appears to show off recent lip injections. Darcey's free to look however she wants to. Nonetheless, although she's smiling happily, it's the same old Darcey - she's just trying a little too hard to impress. Putting on makeup is fun, but Darcey doesn't really need to go this far. In fact, in the past, fans have begged her to tone it down. The snarky fan quoted above is basically saying the same thing.

Many people who follow her online prefer Darcey with a fresher face and a more natural hair color. She's someone who would look fantastic with a "makeunder." However, getting a rise out of her fans is one way that she feeds her ego.

In a sense, she does retain relevancy by changing her looks. Instagram's a photocentric place, and the more Darcey dazzles with her tweaks, the more successful she is as an influencer. People don't have to like everything she does - maybe they don't want to. She might be fully aware that people want someone to complain about - she gives the people what they want.

Darcey Hasn't Given Up On Filters

Her Posts Have A Diva Quality

It seems like Darcey feels uncomfortable in her natural state. When she's done up to the nines, she appears to gain confidence, even veering into diva territory. Above, Darcey really works it, wearing a black and sparkly gown with a plunging neckline, theatrical makeup, and long blond "mermaid" waves. In the caption, her selected hashtags help to take the guesswork out of understanding her mood. She is seemingly living out an Emily In Paris-style fantasy, as she opts for #darceyinparis. She underscores the power of her unbelievable glamour with #sexy and #oohlala.

DARCEY IN PARIS! 💋

Dress: @emasavahl

Red lips/ lashes: @houseofeleven

#darceysilva #darceyandstacey #tlc #90dayfiancé #love #paris #gala #paparazzi #ritzcarltonparis #sexy #oohlala #redlips #houseofeleven france #glam #glamourous #hof11beauty #tvseries #darceyinparis

Darcey wants to be glam, and she is, but she's more than that. When she spends so much time focusing on her looks, she actually pulls fans away from what's inside. She's a mother and Darcey's a House of Eleven entrepreneur - she's also a wife who married Georgi Rusev on November 11, 2024. However, her physical changes happen so rapidly that style often detracts from substance.

If Darcey's ego's growing, as it seems to be, she may alienate the fans who hang in there, waiting for her to get real. There's plenty of good in Darcey, but it's sometimes hidden under all that "stage makeup" and big hair. She's got a sort of soap opera queen vibe - everything is melodramatic, everything is overdone. While wanting glamour isn't a bad thing, it shouldn't be the only thing.

Is Darcey Okay? (She's Putting On Quite A Show)

Maybe She Wants People To Think She Doesn't Have Problems

As Darcey shares her latest permutations with followers, she may be trying to create the perfect façade, in lieu of being honest about what's wrong in her life. Again, almost everyone does this - it's not a crime. However, Darcey goes to extremes. The makeovers are not ultra-modern in that most fashion magazines don't feature models with so much makeup. They do a more sophisticated type of styling on their models, including celebrities. Darcey takes it to the next level. She's more in the Playboy bunny vein than Vogue-worthy.

She likes that look - subtlety is not her bag. It doesn't have to be, but Darcey's marriage may not be a bed of roses. She's had so many problems with Georgi. The red flags were huge and so bright. They were waving in the breeze all the time. She's complained about him using her for money and maintaining sketchy relationships with other women. She has possibly been emotionally abused. During "breaks" with Georgi, she felt uncomfortable when she ran into him. She once said:

Your words hurt people. Your words have hurt me, your actions have hurt me. It’s even uncomfortable standing here talking with you right now.”

This man was never true marriage material and there's likely to be trouble for this duo, but as per a statement from Darcey's rep, Michael London, who spoke with InTouch, Darcey and Georgi remained married as of April 30, 2024. Hopefully, Darcey's just putting her best self out there, rather than hiding a lot of pain.

People will definitely accept her with a more natural image. Women don't need all of this stuff to look beautiful. With or without all the glam, Darcey's worth watching, but her words should matter as much as how she looks. What she does should always matter more than anything. Darcey's made bad decisions, which may have consequences.

Maybe she doesn't want to admit that her marriage is a disaster. Her ego seems strong, but looks can be deceiving. If 90 Day Fiancé and Darcey & Stacey alum Darcey wants people to look under the surface and care, she has to be honest and real enough to make them see her as more than a glammed-up woman on Instagram.

Fans can watch 90 Day Fiancé and Darcey & Stacey on the Discovery+ streaming platform.

Sources: Darcey Silva/Instagram, Darcey Silva/Instagram